I just read this book called "Being Perfect" and of course it's about not trying to be perfect. But that's even harder than trying to be perfect. One of my therapists was trying to tell me about the evils of perfectionism, but I kind of tuned her out.
I was raised around a perfectionist so I know how you feel about wanting to be the best at everything you do...and I know you can prove your parents wrong and show the world that you are great! :)